The Reconnect Programme

Six private sessions to become the person your partner wants to come home to, and feel close again. Online, one-to-one. Not counselling.

Reconnect - 6 weeks

$3,500NZD

The outcome: you're the man she wants to come home to.

  • Feel close to your partner again
  • Stop the same arguments going round
  • Be calm at home, even when things get tense
  • Understand what's been driving the distance
  • Practical skills you keep for life
  • Private, online, at times that suit you (early mornings and lunchtimes available)
Book a private call

Confidential. Your partner doesn't need to know or attend.

The Long Run

For men who finish Reconnect and want to keep going: the next six weeks, with your Reconnect investment credited in full.

What we cover

Most men notice a difference within the first few sessions.

Between sessions you'll practise what you learn on yourself, privately and discreetly. It won't be obvious, and your partner doesn't need to know.

  1. Week 1

    Where you are now

    We start with the reactions you can already see - the ones that come up at home again and again - and clear them.

  2. Week 2

    What's running underneath

    A simple, step-by-step way to find the patterns driving the distance, even the ones you didn't know were there.

  3. Week 3

    Your own toolkit

    You learn the process yourself, so when something old comes up, you can deal with it on the spot.

  4. Week 4

    Steady under pressure

    Understanding what you're actually feeling, so you stay calm and present instead of going quiet or getting short.

  5. Week 5

    Saying what you mean

    How to say what you need, and hear what she needs, without it turning into an argument.

  6. Week 6

    Trusting your gut

    Sharpening the instincts that made you good at work, and pointing them at home.

Questions

No - it's practical one-to-one coaching focused on how you think and react; no reliving the past.

No. This is for you. Many men find their partner notices the change before they say anything.

Yes. Sessions are private and online; nothing is shared.

Most men who come to me are practical and sceptical. Start with the private call and decide for yourself.

Weekday early mornings, lunchtimes and some evenings, New Zealand and Australian time.

We'll know on the private call - if it isn't a fit I'll tell you.